Tuesday, 29 March 2011

'dimana nilai sahabat'

Today. i going to talk about friends again ... in fact this information I got from my cousin ... he is sharing this information ...sory dear....copy and paste...hehehhe

Everyone wants the perfect life we ​​are not even from different angles ... including the friendship ... there is a proverb saying is the perfect companion at the sight of her face, we will remember ALLAH SWT, to hear the words religion and see an action reminded of death ....Sebaik baik sahabat di sisi Allah ialah orang yang terbaik terhadap temannya dan sebaik baik jiran disisi Allah ialah orang yang terbaik terhadap jirannya(H.R al-Hakim)
Have we ever wondered why ALLAH SWT created people of different races, colors and languages. ALLAH SWT says in Surah al-Hujurat verse 13, which means:
Wahai umat manusia! Sesungguhnya Kami telah menciptakan kamu dari lelaki dan perempuan, dan Kami telah menjadikan kamu berbagai bangsa dan berpuak-puak, supaya kamu berkenal-kenalan (dan beramah mesra antara satu sama lain). Sesungguhnya semulia-mulia kamu di sisi Allah ialah orang lebih bertakwa. Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Mengetahui, lagi Maha Mendalam PengetahuanNya.

What are the characteristics of a good friend?
An intelligent orders to his son: "O my son, if you feel the need for friends with someone, then you must choose the character as follows:
* If you serve him, he will protect you,
* If you close friendship with him, he will reply back your friendship;
* If you requires help from him, he will help you:
* If you lend him any good, he will receive it well:
* If he gets a welfare (assistance) from you, or says he will appreciate your kindness :
* If he sees something that is not better than you, he will close it;
* If you ask for help from him, he will be working on it:
* If you keep quiet (as embarrassed to ask), he will ask for your trouble:
* If you come to a disaster happened to you, he will relieve your distress;
* If you say to him, he will allow you:
* If you are planning something, he will help you:
* If you two at odds, he would more easily succumb to the interests of friendship;
* He forbade help meet their responsibilities and the evil and immoral conduct;
* lead him to achieve success in the world and the hereafter. As a teenager who managed to escape from the views of parents be careful when choosing friends. Because friends, we are happy but can also harm our friends.

Be careful or just leave a friend as follows:
* Friends of the greedy: it is greedy, it just gives a little and ask a lot, and it is just selfish. 
* Friends of hypocrisy: it states friendly with respect to things past, or things to come, he tried to get sympathy with empty words, and if there is a chance to help, he said they are willing. 
* Friend pengampu: He agrees with everything that you do not think is right or wrong, that he agreed with the seriousness that he did not dare to explain the truth, he praised you in front of and behind it, or betray responsibility humble yourself. When was the trust, betraying him. When you are in love, she rejected as false.
* Friend spender and like entertainment: it is your neighbor if you love partying, love to roam and are not supposed to melepakpada time, love to places of entertainment and amusement show. 
* Friends who take you further away from ALLAH SWT
*A person who does not add kebajikanmu in the world,  again in the hereafter. An added benefit is no life in the hereafter, your friend is not true.
Be careful to choose friends, because friends can be a personal reflection. Make friends for ALLAH SWT to look pleased with him. Because of that religion has a guide who is fully in the life ins. One effect of the properties of piety (heart to fear ALLAH SWT or who believe), someone may not be betraying his own friend and mempersiakan trust or confidence given the reply.

Monday, 28 March 2011

about friends

Assalamualaikum......now I want to share with you all about friends ... of course all of us have friends who own ... I believe a friend is a place for us to share everything including our personal things ...too many stories today involving a friend .. sometimes we forget ... a friend is not everything ... I mean ... not for us to express everything ... friends can be toxic to most poisonous to our lives ... want to know why I said it kind? because our friends can affect whether good or bad..but we alone can determine whether it was actually good or a bad friend ... I believe 93% of us will share their problems with friends ... have you all figured out that a friend is not likely to help his friends if you do not have problem?? a very strange question ... but I was actually the truth is not the same friend who always helps us yourself even if no problem .... why do I talk like this?? only because of all the suffering Our bear ... the excitement ... only we know ... no matter how good your friend .... remember is that even one day can become friends ... and opponent can also be toxic venomous ...remember we have family....just share with them and we also have ALLAH SWT....place that we can share everything a safe place to share...but please you have to be careful the word of FRIEND....

Sunday, 27 March 2011

'pembuka bicara'

Assalamualaikum to all muslim and welcome to my blog..first of all i would like to say thank you very much to all of you coz view my blog...actually this is my first blog and i dont know what to do...as you know...im the new person here...hope you all can teach me more about this blog...hmm....what im want to say here...i will use english and malay language in this blog...hope u all will understand...hopefully..any suggestion 0r comment or whatever it is...you can share with me....i want to be part of your frenz...hope so....huhuhuhu.....okay...for the first time...this blog i create because...i want to share with all of you about my life...our life...sad and happy story...okay...that all for now...i will sent more post after this...